An article on raising children

 An article about raising children

 Correct methods of raising children

  Parents follow educational methods in order to refine the behavior of their children and help them form a strong, independent personality. Among these methods are the following: [1] ADVERTISING Guidance: Guidance helps create good dialogue paths between the child and his parents, so they can understand what is on his mind more clearly, and direct him to what There is good for him based on this understanding.

  Role model: The son imitates the behavior of his parents, so it is easy for him to have good morals if he observes them in the actions of his parents, and seeks from them the ideal that he can follow in all matters.

  Punishment: Proper upbringing of children sometimes requires punishing them for their mistakes, provided that the punishment does not lead to serious harm.

Wrong methods of raising children. The following points highlight the most prominent wrong methods that parents may follow to raise their children, which are as follows:

Bullying: where the father or mother, or both, deprive their children of achieving their legitimate desires, and this may be accompanied by depriving them of some things or practicing physical violence towards them, without realizing that this method will make their children lose their self-confidence, and create in them a permanent feeling of helplessness and failure.

Negligence ;Parents' neglect of their child may stem from their constant preoccupation with Nother matters. They leave their child without supervision or accountability, and do not motivate him to do anything good.

  Excessive protection: This means preventing the child from assuming his responsibilities alone, and performing them for him, which reinforces the child’s love of dependence on others and weakens his self-confidence.

  Factors that affect raising children, including the followin ampering Some parents tend to go to extremes in fulfilling their children’s desires and satisfying their needs without taking into account any religious, moral, or social control.

There are many factors influencing the upbringing of children

The relationship between brothers and their number: Families in which the spirit of selfishness and division prevail will suffer from this in the future, with the brothers alienating each other and each one of them escaping into his own life. The matter is not limited to the fraternal atmosphere only, but also extends to the number of individuals within the house. The research he conducted found ( R.Zajonc) that the large number of children has a very harmful effect on their mental abilities, and he called this phenomenon the confluence model, through which he explained the decline in the level of intelligence in America in 1962 AD, due to the inverse relationship between the number of family members and the level of The intelligence in it; Considering that the family is a social medium for raising a child.

The economic level of the family: There is no doubt that the economic situation is a fundamental influence on family upbringing, and an important element in satisfying the adolescent’s material and moral needs necessary for living. Such as housing, food, and clothing. The difficult situation often pushes children to deviate, or run away from school, etc.

  Educational and cultural level: It seems self-evident that educated parents with a good degree of education are more knowledgeable than others about sound educational methods, and they have the ability to employ these methods in raising and raising their children in a sound manner.